December 29, 2018

How oh how can it almost be 2019 already? So here W/we are again, looking back on a what is a never a dull day in this FemDom life. As always, there are a select few who have played their part in trials and tribulations of this lifestyle. Some who have either received a pat on the head, virtual or real and well those who I’d happily leave neglected and rotting away on the peripherals of the scene, where they can no longer bother another Woman again. 

Firstly, ben (@loserboygimp). Do you have any idea how easy it is to humiliate you? Honestly, the insults ju...

September 1, 2018

So, when you search the #Findom hashtag on Twitter nowadays, what do you see? Another Retweet game? A Costa Coffee receipt? The warning from another disgruntled teen warning others that ‘richpaypigslave01’ is in actual fact a timewaster? Shock horror. Mix that in with some dog snapchat filters, middle fingers and a shout out to ‘DirkHooper’ (whoever that is!) and you have a scene that is a far cry from what I discovered and developed from in 2008.

The cold hard truth is, Findom is a very niche and rare fetish, most of what you see on social media isn’t find...

August 16, 2018

So, this blog post has stemmed from a couple of sessions recently. One online with one of My regular ‘drop & hide’ boys as I like to call them. The session consists of him waiting approximately 9 months- 1 year, drops over £1000 whilst talking to Me on kik messenger for a about an hour then radio silence for another year until he returns to do it all over again. I know nothing but his name, barely anything about his profession, earnings or status. W/we never actually use the word ‘findom.’ But it’s clear W/we are both enjoying it and at the end he thanks M...

March 19, 2018

So, the weekend just passed set the stage for Me to pay My new boy @CLurkee a visit. After his first ever meet and experience of submission, he was aching to return and explore some more but this time, a lot closer to home. Nothing gets you boys making arrangements like the promise of a long night of domination. My boy was busy doing exactly that. From making his apartment spotless, to reserving a table at the Shangri La to booking flight tickets for unwanted co-habitants to disappear for the weekend.

This was to be only his second time so understandably ne...

October 29, 2017

Firstly, I love New York. I love the vibe, I love the pace and bustle of it. I love their high standards and the level of service you get in city. Although England is My home, NYC will always have Me coming back time and time again.

So, the main occasion that brought Me to the Big Apple this year was a boy called evan. From Ohio, W/we met through NF and in no time he was keen to serve and impress. O/our conversation turned to the States and after a couple of weeks, was happily paying for My Premium flights to JFK. After some discussion, it was agreed that I...

September 7, 2017

Its nearly been a whole week since My last trip to London, where I got to spend some well overdue time with My fellow Domme friends, Madame Lisa & Madame G. Firstly, I had the most wonderful dinner at Sketch in Mayfair with Madame Lisa and a couple of Her vanilla friends. As always, the conversation steers towards kinks and the and the occupational ‘weirdness’ We experience on the daily. I went on to discuss the current boys I had in chastity where I was abruptly stopped. ‘What’s chastity?!’ One of the ladies asked as We sipped Our cocktails. Lisa and I lo...